Where am I now?

I have been an Auntie going on 8 years now. I now (technically) have 3 nephews and 1 niece.  Plus many more by choice through other friends and family.  There is something so special and truly magical about being an Aunt.  Unconditional love comes easy. Hugs and kisses are given away like candy on Halloween.  "Watch out for Auntie kisses!" is something I warn them of each time I visit. They are young enough to giggle over it right now. Soon it will be, "Auntie! Gross!" Hahahaha. It's crazy to say and sometimes hard to comprehend, but there is just so much more to life because of these little beings and their human needs. It's a unique bond that I hope most Aunties do not take for granted!
I'm not a biological mother, so I cannot speak to what that is like or how my role as Auntie, Mother Figure, Friend-  compares. And honestly, it's not a debate. They don't actually compare; they are unique and stand alone from each other.  I understand that most (or many) women are biological Moms, as well as, Aunts.  I'm a little different. I may not be a Mom to anyone, but I'm now lucky enough to be a mother figure, a biological Auntie and an Auntie by choice. And no, I don't have any pets. That's a topic I will save for another time. I promise you though, that I am human.  I am conscious of my roles. And I am going to continue to be the best mother figure and Auntie I can be!!
That being said, what is it like to be 36 and NOT a Mom? Surprisingly hard. I'm not sure if you have noticed, but our society is so judgemental. Not always in an intentionally harsh kind of way, but in the, "You don't have kids?" "Oh, are these your stepkids?" kind of way. There's such a politically correct fine line that I walk each day...not only publicly, but in my own mind.  Are they my biological children? No. Do I recognize they have a Mother and Father that love them more than life itself? YES. However, would I give up everything, lay down my life, sever a limb (and I don't do blood ;) ) for their safety and happiness? YES AND I AM PISSED YOU are taking the time to ask me that, as I am worried (usually irrationally- just like any ol' parent!)ALWAYS for their safety and happiness.